Saturday, August 10, 2013

A farewell is necessary...

...before we can meet again.

So... it's come to this.  I don't know any other way to say it, so I just have to come out and do it.  Like pulling off a bandaid or pulling out a tooth... fast and as painless as possible.

Good bye

It's been almost a month since I made a cap.  A month since I really felt like Caitlyn.  So unless she returns to me as mysteriously as she left, I have to assume she's gone forever.

That doesn't mean that I don't want to stay in contact though.  As I've said in previous posts, I have made just far to many friends here to ever wave good bye.  So I went ahead with the plan I thought about in my last post and made my other blog ( private.  There I will continue posting and sharing whats going on in my life. The reason it's private is I only want to share that information to people I 'know'.  That is to say my 'Caitlyn Friends'.  I've given plenty of hints here that a person who knows me only as 'Calvin' could use to identify my split personae, but they'd have to work hard at it.  I don't believe there is any one single post that would put up a red identifying flag on this blog, but in my future posts I may well share that type of information.

I'm not going to share my real name (no... it's not Calvin either).  I'm not going to share my address, phone number, or 'Calvin' email addresses.  I will share about where I work but I won't identify exactly where I work.  I'll share stories about my friends and family (names changed to keep their identities anonymous).  I'll share things that could easily be used to identify me... if you already know me.  That's the only reason I want the new posts at the other blog to be private.  I don't mind being open... I just want to keep at least a thin veil of anonymity.

So... who's welcome at this new blog?  If you have a TG capping blog, then you're in.  If you have a cross dressing or sissy blog, then you're in.  If you have an account at Rachel's Haven, then you're in.  If you've commented on this blog (or regularly comment on other TG/Crossdressing/sissy blogs, then you're in too.  All you have to do is let me know that you'd like in.

I have plenty of friends that I'd love to just go ahead and put in.  Dee, Jennifer, Simone, Smitty, Alectra, Leeanne, Kaity, and far to many others to mention.  The only problem is, I have to know your email address that you use with blogger.  The privacy setting makes me add 'readers' one by one and it has to be tied to a blogger account.  So while I may know your email address, I'm not sure it's the one tied to your blogger account.

So drop me a line.  Since I need to have your email address, you shouldn't just leave it here in a comment, but you can send me an email at 'caitlynmasked at gmail dot com' or send me a PM on the haven.  Heck, you can even send me something in the 'Ask Caitlyn A Question' thingy.

One last thing.  If you are considering coming over to the other blog to see any new caps... don't.  I won't be posting as Caitlyn there.  I may talk about Caitlyn and my relationship with her and the community as a whole, but if she comes back to me and we make new art, I'll post it here.

So that's it.  I'm setting this up to be the last post in awhile at this blog.  If and when Caitlyn comes back to me I'll be sure to post it here.


  1. Thanks for sharing the work Caitlyn inspired with us. I hope she returns to you someday as an old welcomed friend.

  2. thanks for everything :) we appreciate you even if you never come back, and for keeping your work up! (a rarity when people 'leave' the tg cap community )

  3. Thanks so much. If you need my email, I'll send you a message later

  4. Thanks so much! I wish you the best for the future!

  5. Thanks for the entertainment, the escape, the titillation, the deep thoughts, and the laughs. Thanks for letting me collaborate with you in making stories, I enjoyed the outlet. Like I have told you several times before, I read a lot of other cappers but you have always been my favorite. I am going to miss Caitlyn. Best wishes.

  6. Sorry to see you leaving.
    I have always enjoyed your caps
    Will miss them.
    good luck in your next adventure, what ever it may be