Turn the other Cheek

Spankings go both ways!

This is one of those caps where I saw the image and had the title already in mind when I decided to see what story came out of it.  I could probably come up with a better title after writing the cap, but there's just something fun about 'Turn the other Cheek' when talking about spanking.  

The cap is simple enough that there's nothing directly cap related to talk about, but there are two things I'd like to muse over.  

First, relationships in sexually explicit stories, caps, and videos.  Why is the whole 'mother/daughter' or 'son/mother' or 'father/daughter' relationships a turn on?  I know there are kinks (hello?  Forced feminization!) and I don't want to discount anybody's freaky turn on... but family?  I posted a recent meme to face book:  

'Why was Oedipus against profanity?'
'Because he kisses his mother with that mouth.'
'I'm getting really tired of these motherfucking jokes!'

Now, it's funny because of the Oedipus complex where, according to Freud, younger children get a sexual arousal/thrill from the parent of opposite sex.  Boys and their mother, girls and their father.  Now, I try never to rely on Freud as an argument winner, but it's a general part of society today that sexual relationships between family members is wrong.  Marriage between close family members is still illegal in most areas of the country.  Siblings, parents, grandparents.  Almost all illegal.  Some go further and include aunts, uncles, and cousins.  

Now, for the purposes of porn, story is practically irrelevant.  I watched a new (to me) porn video last night that had all the story of 'guy sees woman sunning herself by the pool side, removes her bikini, massages her, then fucks her'.  Is it her father?  Her brother?  Her boyfriend?  Her husband?  A stranger?  It doesn't specify and frankly that's fine by me.  I'm assuming a boyfriend/husband style relationship but some might prefer the stranger angle and it still leaves room for the incest desiring people that want father or brother.  

Obviously the reason it comes to mind now is my own use of it here.  But does making the daughter a STEPdaughter make this less creepy and more... well, I was going to say wholesome but that's just not going to be possible, amiright?  Anyway, if anybody is ever wanting a sister/brother or father/daughter type story from me, they are going to be left wanting.  This is about as close as I'm ever going to get with the distinct 'NOT DIRECTLY BLOOD RELATED' caveat.  

I made the above cap and wrote the post on January 9th.  And no, your calendar isn't wrong.  Today is the 30th.  It's been a BAD few weeks.  I've had times where I made a cap, started writing the post and had to step away before posting, but this is beyond even what I expected.  To be honest, I'm not even sure what kept me away on the 9th, but I've been at work almost every single day since then.  And not just my normal 8 hour day (with an hour long commute each way)... I've been working 10, 12, 16 hour days.  I'd go into work expecting a 'normal' day and then would have to deal with a call in and end up staying the entire shift in the clinic instead of my office.  Scheduling became a nightmare as we're below half staffed AND had a half dozen nurses go down with bad cases of COVID-19.  

Friday the 28th was my first day in my office that entire time and I didn't even scratch the surface of catching up.  We're getting our nurses back and even hiring a new one.. but it's still bad.  

Anyway, this isn't a oh-woe-is-me post (I might make that on my other blog).  I mentioned all that because I have no idea what the other thing I was going to write about.  I talked about familial relationships in porn (my take: ew), but honestly have no idea what else I was going to cover in the "two things I'd like to muse over"

I guess I'll take this opportunity to talk about spanking.  I know it wasn't an issue I was going to talk about, but I feel almost obligated to discuss two things.  So, spanking.  I'll freely admit, I like it.  Both the thought of giving and receiving.  This absolutely applies to two consenting adults  Or at least semi-consenting adults.  It's not about punishment as it would be for children and I fully believe the inherent psychological imprint that spanking gives children just isn't worth it (the basics are that children learn that it's okay to inflict one's will with force).  But with adults, its more about a power structure.  Taking power and giving power (or having power taken).  

When I think of laying a woman across my lap, laying my hand across the back of her neck, the small of her back, or with a handful of her hair, and giving her spanks across her ass... well, it just plain ol makes me horny.  It makes me hard.  This wouldn't be about making her cry or feel extreme pain.  This wouldn't leave her with anything near a permanent mark.  But it wouldn't feel necessarily good.  It would be sharp and sudden and bracing.  It wouldn't be about hurting her, it would be about establishing power over her.  

When I think of being laid over a man's lap, having his hand hold me down while he uses his big hard hand to lay spanks across my unprotected ass... well it just plain ol makes me horny.  It makes me wet.  He wouldn't hurt me with each spank, but the repeated strikes would start to warm my flesh and then dip into endorphin filled pain.  And while I'd want to get away from the sensation, he'd enforce his power, take my power, and make me lay there and bear it.  It wouldn't be about hurting me, it would be about establishing power over me.  

Now, it's pretty clear I see the spanking, the power dynamic, in clear masculine/feminine roles more than I do in dominant/submissive roles.  I know a lot of spanking fantasies are about girls getting spanked by women, or sissies getting spanked by their mistresses... but mine is purely a man spanking a woman.  Me spanking her or him spanking me.  I'd say it's probably the most clearly differentiated act that I feel I could enjoy from both perspectives.  There are plenty of things I'd like from both sides of the act, but they aren't equal.  I'd LOVE to give a blowjob but I believe I'd only like to get one.  I'd love to be kissed by a man but I like kissing a woman less.  I'd like to treat a woman like a princess... holding doors, carrying bags, letting her make the choices... but a man better treat me as an equal if I were his woman.  Spanking?  I get equally aroused on either side of that equation.   I want my hand to sting as much as I want my ass to ache.  I want to pull a woman across my lap and I want to feel his hard-on press into my belly. 

*shivers*

I guess that'll do for the 'other' subject.  I'm not sure I'll ever get all of those wonderfully conflicted feelings into a story or an obscura or a cap, but they're all there boiling under the surface.   

Anywho, I hope you enjoy the cap.  It might be awhile before I get around to making another.